another girls blog..... this was from October 2006 I hopeyou enjoy this
I went onto Myspace today to read this blog, I thougth I would share this with you all and hopefully get a response from you.
Let me know what you think.
love and light
Denise
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CAN WOMEN 'DO THEIR THING'???!!! Current mood: curious Category: Romance and Relationships
--> -->A friend 2day said that women cant do their thing... I replied that:I see yr point but also have to point out that, if a woman walks her walk with grace, confidence, strength and dignity, she can have plenty experiences and still b as desirable and worthy wife material! It is down to a man's insecurities to have issues with how many previous partners she has had...I used to think that sleeping with many men made u cheap but realise that it really plays no role in depreciating yr value as a woman! Another thing that has come to my attention is that 'oldskool wifeys' are a rare occurance and the ones that appear to b good girls simply hide their movements well!! LOL If i were a man, i wouldnt care about her past, only her truth and our future 2geva...honesty is the best policy ;)
He then replied that in an idolistic world that's how it should be, but in reality men get funny about too many men being able to claim they have bedded their woman... to which i pointed out that --> --> -->StartFragment --> the women that know their worth and self respect will only chose the ones that can elevate themselves to the next level ;)
So I want to know both opinions...gurlies and men...does the past really make that much of a difference if u meet Ms Right? If u feel they will honour, respect and share a beautiful life journey with u, does it really matter that u may come across others that 'already been there'?!!
Fill me in :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
This was my comment and a response from the lady who had written the blog, and her friends comment.
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Friends comment first:
I dont give a dam about all the dudes in the past, as far as im concerned it's a new chapter in both of our lives.
Posted by Wayne A Robinson on Monday,
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my comment:
Well what a subject, I have been a single mum most of my life my first partner, a sailor. MM yes I think the term every port a different girl, suited him. That doesnt mean I loved him less.
But I do believe men have an instinct of territory, and this is a 'caveman' attitude from days gone by. I also believe that if a son is brought up to be open minded and to understand that our lives are what we make it, then we will create healthy attitudes to; how modern women may be looked at with respect and dignity.This will give experience of love and not looked at as carrying 'baggage' from a previous relationship.
This so called 'baggage' is what makes us.
tA man will find this attractive to begin with because a woman will exude confidence, strength and has no fear to express what she wants from that man she is with.
I believe a man would find this extremely encouraging,sexy and alluring , which in turn would give the man confidence to ask the woman out!!
A woman could be as insecure about the man's past, but if she learns to look beyond that,they can both share an extremely passionate relationship. In the PRESENT, which could then be built for a stronger future.
Our past is there to help us, not hinder us.
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Miss G's response :
That's what I'm talking about!! It's not about limiting our future by dwelling in our past! Thank U Denise! xG
response
connie
"rommance and relationships" nobody ever told us when we were younger how much hard work has to be put into a relationship and how many years it takes to build the trust of one another,so much angst and fear at the beginning and not knowing is their still feelings for any old flames??if only it was as easy as we read in our fairytales when they all fell in love with the most perfect partners and lived happily ever after, it should be that whatever someone has done in the past "is their past" and does not need to explain to anybody about it as it was their decision at that time and nothing to do with anybody else..some good advice when you are getting into a serious relationship do not dig for information that you really deep down do not want to know about.. start your relationship with the toughts in your that this person is really great and whatever was done in his or her past is their past and nothing to do with this coming together of two people,for the way i see it is every body has a past and if you think that you are going to find a partner without one then you my friend are still living in a fairytale...
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